Virtues: In the last few "O"zones, we have talked
about the vices of negative and positive emotions.
The transformation from negative to positive
emotions and then onto virtues is the core purpose of
life.
Virtues are a state of being that deny fear, worry,
control, and victim-hood. The states of virtue are the
foundation for the most powerful states of creation we
can experience in this life. I am going to include the
quotes that I have gathered and been given to share
through the years to help you gain a greater insight
into these dynamic states of being. Share your
thoughts and insights you may have in reading this
month's edition. Enjoy the quotes:
Love: The truth never needs to be protected. We feel
defensive when we are protecting a flaw, a weakness
or a lie. Love never needs to be defended. It is self-
proclaiming. It is solid and magnificent by itself.
Virtue is unassailable. The divine within us is like the
universe before us. It is real, grand, good, beyond
comprehension and is undeniable. When we find
that reality in ourselves and celebrate it, we become
powerful, peaceful and purposeful.
We cannot truly know ourselves, or the God that
loves us, created us and sponsors our growth and
maturity outside of pure love.
When we serve, we serve out of love or out of
manipulation. If a mother launders and irons her
family's clothes, it is out of love or out of a desire to
obtain control. Only love creates a win-win scenario.
Only love has no attachment to outcome. Only love
truly serves.
The only gift God seeks from us is our love. Love is
demonstrated through obedience.
You have the power to choose. You have the ability
to form, from the material of your experiences, what
you want your life to be. Guilt and contentment are
made of the same material. Shame and self-love are
formed of the same clay. The material of life is less
relevant than the craftsman who shapes it, forms it,
and sees in it the finished product long before the
material is ever worked upon. Whether you realize it
or not you are the craftsman. Decide how you want
your life to be, create it in your mind, and start acting
that way. It will become exactly what you believe it
will become.
The greatest gift we can give to others is love. Thus,
self-love is the only true gift we can give to ourselves.
How do we express self-love?
Take your frustrations to the Lord and give your love
to your family.
We only get in life proportionate to what we give and
the love with which we give it.
Moral agency becomes free agency when we act
obediently through love.
Only that which we love can add to us. Everything
else controls us.
Gratitude: Dis-stress is the inability to feel gratitude
for your circumstance. Stress is to experience
willingly a soul stretching experience. Joy is to
willingly submit your will to God.
Judgment always pits your will against God's. It is a
byproduct of pride. Pride is the great sin. Humility is
the great virtue. It grows out of a relentless
confidence and an unerring knowledge of God's
character and reality.
Grief can only be processed properly when we add
gratitude to the mix.
Here are the steps to overcoming an uncomfortable
event:
First breathe.
Then relax.
Next feel the feelings and the situation you are
in.
Fourth, Watch what is involved and what is around
you. Be truly aware. Be cautious to eliminate labels.
See things for what they really are.
Fifth: Allow the experience to flow around you and
through you. You are like a rock in the stream. The
stream will flow and change, but you will only be
made more smooth and beautiful by the pressure it
exerts.
And last, Gratitude. Feel gratitude that God has
chosen to allow you this refining experience. In it is
implied trust and love. God knows you are good and
powerful.
God never pushes someone who can't give any
more.
Gratitude, and humility. This state frees our vision. It
opens our minds to see things, and others as they
really are. This is the state of enlightenment,
oneness, charity and godliness. These are the eyes
that see far off.
To be seventy years young is sometimes far more
cheerful and hopeful than to be forty years old.
Humility is the ultimate reality.
Humility asks questions. Pride states opinions.
It is the humility of the student, not just the stature of
the teacher that lets a lesson be profound.