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Our emotions reveal our inner dynamic, but they don't
define us.
If you have a bad day, and then feel bad that you are having a bad day, and you have nothing to feel bad about because your life is pretty good, so you feel worse about yourself...let me stop you right there and talk to you for a moment. Our emotions are our teachers, they are not the sum of what we are. They are not us. They simply reveal where we can grow, not what we are. Each of us, all of us, every one of us has challeges and what we would call "shortcomings." Each of us is less than what we would like to be. Each of us has a characteristic we don't like, and sometimes even hate. Often we will make the mistake of then extending that hate to ourselves as a whole, because that characteristic is part of us. We let ourselves be defined by our feelings and emotions. We are not our feelings, and we are not the sum of our emotions. However, our feelings and emotions can and do offer us the chance to grow, provide us the focus to learrn, and the chance to refine ourselves to be the best we can be, at this moment in our lives. Our emotions tells us we are not looking at our situation in the best way we can. When we feel anger, we have evaluated the situation inappropriately. Anger is an emotion derived from improper judgment and usually fear. When we reevaluate, find the fear, and see what it is we are dealing with, the anger is gone. Then, when we see things more clearly yet, the fear is also found to be unwarranted. Let me use an example. I was talking to a young woman one day who was angry and hurt. Her recent engagement was broken off one week before her wedding day by a text message from her fiance telling her he couldn't do this. End of story. No other comments. He wouldn't answer her calls or anything. She was crushed. Three months later, when I was talking with her, she was still angry. She also said that she found out he had been cheating on her with at least 6 other women. He was currently living with another woman. This only deepened the hurt she felt. I asked her what attracted her to him. She was very honest and said, "I thought I could fix him." So she entered the relationship with the idea that she needed to fix people or she wasn't what she should be. Then, she fails to fix him, and her fear was that she would never be enough. She might never be able to be who she thought she needed to be. Her anger came from fear. Her fear was inappropriate, but it was where she needed to put her focus. She also realized that she looked at him as broken. She was about to marry a man because she thought he was broken. How would you like to be in a relationship with someone who believed you to be broken, and that their every effort was to make you different from the person you are? How loving could you be to the otehr person if they saw you in this way? He was trying to get her to leave him. He had tried everything. Finally, since cheating, lying, and abusing her didn't work, he used his only tool he had left; texting. It finally worked. With this background information, does her anger or fear sound rational? Does it appear what she should work on? She needed to work on herself. She needed to be comfortable with her, as she was, and not because she could fix a person she had judged as a loser. So, how does she work on herself? Great question. What suggestions would you have for this woman? Please submit your ideas by emailing drolson@i1.net, and we will talk about them and share next month. |
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Well, they say that time flies when you're having fun. I
must be having a blast because time is really flying
by!
It's August already, and I hope everyone has
implemented their new sleep regimen. Remember,
we
talked last month about how
important sleep is. So, we should all be getting those
precious hours of beauty sleep. Now that we have
that squared away, I would like to tell you a true story
that happened recently.
A man spoke frantically into the phone. "My wife is pregnant, and her contractions are only two minutes apart!" "Is this her first child?" the doctor asked. "No!" the man shouted. "This is her husband!" Go on, laugh. Come on....let it out. Now, doesn't that feel better? Let me tell you a story that my wife related to me. We have been teaching our kids about emergency preparedness and what to do in case of an earthquake, fire, tornado, etc. Well, on the first Monday of every month, our city tests the tornado sirens. It just so happened that Samuel and Nicholas (our two boys) were outside playing and sure enough, it was a test day. The sirens started blaring. Soon, Sam and Nicholas came frantically running inside with Nicholas shouting as loud as he could, "A tomato is coming! A tomato is coming!" You've probably heard that laughter is the best medicine. Apparently, it's true. In this case, I may have just saved your life. Well...okay...maybe improved it a little then. Studies have shown that laughter can help with many physiological functions of the body. If you are feeling stressed out, try laughing. It is a wonderful muscle relaxant. Laughter also helps reduce stress hormones like epinephrine and cortisol while at the same time increasing oxygen to the body. This alone helps to lower blood pressure. Laughter has been shown to increase immunoglobulins A and B, as well as T-cell activity. These cells help to boost our immune systems. Consequently, many benefits of laughter have been seen in patients with depression, anxiety, and sleeplessness. Perhaps one of the greatest benefits of laughter is that it keeps you looking young. By laughing, we exercise all those facial muscles. Laughing also increases blood nourishment to skin in the face, causing a healthy and youthful glow (and in extreme bouts of laughter, even redness). Now, lean in close. I want to share a secret with you. Do you ever wonder how Dr. Olson keeps those boyish good looks and never appears to be stressed? Yep...You guessed it. Dr. Johnson keeps him laughing. This is no easy task, especially since I'm running out of jokes. I do want to stress that clean humor is a blessing and a gift. We should be able to laugh at ourselves and the experiences we have in life. Warning: If you are finding it more and more difficult to laugh, this may be due to interference within the nervous system. Come on in, have your nervous system scanned, and let us help you to experience and express life more fully. Just remember, Confucius say: "he who laugh last, not get joke." -Dr. J :-D |
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You are invited to bring your children in on Tuesday,
August 12th for FREE school physicals. Dr. Johnson
will take time to complete a thorough examination
that goes above and beyond the norm, all at no
charge to you!
This offer is open to patients and non-patients alike, so spread the word and call 636-225-2121 to schedule your appointment today! |
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Advanced Acupressure
Join us on Wednesday, August 27th at 6:30 PM . Dr. Olson will be hosting a 1-hour seminar on Advanced Acupressure. It is recommended for those who have previously taken Acupressure for Home Use or have prior basic knowledge of acupressure and its uses. Be prepared for a deeper and more insightful knowledge behind acupressure, as well as a group- led discussion about how to better use acupressure in everyday life. Dr. Olson will do his best to answer any questions you may have, so start thinking about what you would like answered!
Where: Olson Chiropractic Cost: $10 per person Seating is limited for this event, so please call 636-225-2121 to register for your spot ASAP! |
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Osteoporosis Drug Linked to Fractures
-Physicians at the Weill Medical College of Cornell University are now reporting that prolonged use of Fosomax (generic: bisphosphonate alendronate) may increase the risk of fractures in the femur (the thigh bone and largest bone in the body). -This drug, designed to slow bone loss and increase bone mass, may overly suppress bone metabolism, limiting the repair of microdamage and increasing the risk of fractures, when used long term. |
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Statins May Spur Dementia
-More bad news for cholesterol-lowering meds (aka statin drugs)! According to researchers at the University of Rochester Medical Center, statin drugs may adversely affect a particular group of brain cells important to the health of aging brains. -Glial progenitor cells are flexible brain cells held in reserve which the brain can change and customize according to whatever type of cell it needs to stay healthy. -Researchers found that statin drugs spur these glial progenitor cells to become one particular kind of cell, therefore losing this crucial ability to change. The brain can no longer transform these cells into what it needs to stay healthy. -It has yet to be determined whether statins boost the rate of dementia, although some physicians already believe that they do, and this new data definitely provides a basis for further exploration. |
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Sincerely,
Rand Olson
Olson Chiropractic: Nature's Healing Center
email:
drolson@i1.net
phone:
636-225-2121
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